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Happy Valentine’s Day!
\nToday I want you to fall in love.
\nAnd to share, show, and celebrate that love.
\nBut it’s not the love you have for someone else.
\nIt’s a more important kind of love.
\nWait, what?!<\/p>\n

It’s the love you have…. for yourself.<\/p>\n

Showing up for yourself is hard.
\nIt’s even harder when you are in a relationship that doesn’t serve you well.<\/p>\n

So…here’s a very romantic visual that might help you do what you need to do if you need to choose for yourself.<\/p>\n

Remember….saying NO to someone or something that doesn’t feel right, is always saying YES to you.
\nSay YES to you today.
\nAnd every day.<\/p>\n

With love (and not just on Valentine’s Day),
\nBuffi<\/p>\n

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