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A personal note from my heart\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sitting on the floor in my living room, surrounded by flowers and cards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Half of them say \u2018Congratulations!\u2019 and the other half \u2018My deepest condolences\u2019. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s been a hell of a week, to put it mildly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I launched my new book ‘You Are The Best Thing That Has Ever Happened To You’ on October 15. It was a day I had been waiting for and working towards all year, and I had a huge celebration, featuring lots of friends like Dolf Jansen and Tim Knol. It was truly the highlight of the year for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next day, my mother died unexpectedly. It was shocking and sudden. I took the first flight available to the States. She will be so missed. <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s been a rollercoaster of a week – so many messages of condolences on the passing of my brilliant mother (who was my sparring partner for the book), and messages from people reading my new book and loving it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW AM I? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m coping. Day by day. I am applying all the lessons in my new book to myself, and I have to say …they work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am hooking into gratitude even deeper than before and I’m on a mission to spread Joy everywhere, more than ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I say Joy because that was my Mom’s middle name – Joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was the best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The heaviest hearts are the fullest.\ud83d\udc9d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now that I’m back home, I’m going to spread Joy everywhere. And I am so happy my new book is all about that! I’m very happy to sign a book for you with a personal message. If you’d like to start living lighter and brighter, and feel motivated and inspired, click hier<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every day is a gift. Never forget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank you all for your support!\ud83d\ude4f<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Liefs,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buffi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Click here for a signed book!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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