{"id":16565,"date":"2024-11-11T11:01:45","date_gmt":"2024-11-11T10:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/?p=16565"},"modified":"2024-11-11T11:01:47","modified_gmt":"2024-11-11T10:01:47","slug":"this-is-how-we-deal-with-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/nl\/this-is-how-we-deal-with-it\/","title":{"rendered":"This is how we deal with it\u2026."},"content":{"rendered":"

As I write this, I\u2019ve been awake for nearly 31 hours. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stayed up all night watching the election results, and stayed up trying to process what I witnessed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sad, I\u2019m shocked, and I have an immense need to understand why and how this is happening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

MORE THAN EVER, 8 YEARS ON<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8 years ago on the morning after Trump won I tweeted \u2018If anyone sees me in the next 4 years, please give me a hug because I\u2019ll need one.\u2019 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The response was overwhelming. So many people wanted to give hugs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heel Holland Hugt was born<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve hughes thousands of people in dozens of cities over the years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today I realize that we need to connect and share compassion more than ever. We share more than we think. Let\u2019s remember that as we try to navigate through a very, very divisive world. \"\u2665\ufe0f\" <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hook into compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask the hard questions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Really listen to answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Find out where the common ground is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then walk on it together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With love, and a big, big hug,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buffi <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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