{"id":17437,"date":"2025-07-28T11:44:14","date_gmt":"2025-07-28T09:44:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/?p=17437"},"modified":"2025-07-09T11:45:18","modified_gmt":"2025-07-09T09:45:18","slug":"are-you-against-aggression","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/nl\/are-you-against-aggression\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you against aggression?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Start in your bathroom<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re a good person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Actually, you\u2019re a great person.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who stands for <strong>good<\/strong> in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who looks for <strong>kindness in others<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who t<strong>reats strangers with respect<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>WAIT A MINUTE<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u2026.how about doing that for yourself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you look in the mirror, <strong>do you greet that person with kindness<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Or do you start to criticize?<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you focus on things you see as flaws in your appearance?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you zoom in on things that are too much, too little, too soft, too big, too small, too hairy, too old?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What if you treated that gorgeous, kind, respectful person looking back at you with the kindness<strong> they so deserve<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are against aggression, start with the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the person looking back at you<strong> deserves to be truly seen and loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Liefs,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buffi\u00a0<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bol.com\/nl\/nl\/p\/jij-bent-het-beste-wat-jou-ooit-is-overkomen\/9300000183767657\/?bltgh=vsQ9DO9nzFELlvhsENxNcw.4_13.14.ProductTitle\">More tips here!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Start in your bathroom You\u2019re a good person. 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