{"id":18366,"date":"2026-05-05T09:21:53","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T07:21:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/?p=18366"},"modified":"2026-05-05T09:21:55","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T07:21:55","slug":"are-you-against-aggression-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/nl\/are-you-against-aggression-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you against aggression?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Start with your mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re a good person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, you\u2019re a great person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who stands for good in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who looks for kindness in others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One who treats strangers with respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u2026.how about doing that for yourself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you look in the mirror, do you greet that person with kindness?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or do you start to criticize?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you focus on things you see as flaws in your appearance?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you zoom in on things that are too much, too little, too soft, too big, too small, too hairy, too old?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What if you treated that gorgeous, kind, respectful person looking back at you with the kindness they so deserve?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are against aggression, start with the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the person looking back at you deserves to be truly seen and loved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Liefs,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buffi&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bol.com\/nl\/nl\/s\/?searchtext=buffi+duberman\">I got you!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Start with your mirror. 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