{"id":18738,"date":"2026-10-19T14:57:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-19T12:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/?p=18738"},"modified":"2026-11-02T15:58:50","modified_gmt":"2026-11-02T14:58:50","slug":"there-are-6-conversations-in-every-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/nl\/there-are-6-conversations-in-every-1\/","title":{"rendered":"There are 6 conversations in every 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Surprising\u2026.but true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Look at this picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It might look like two people talking, but it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>There are actually 6 conversations going on here:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1:&nbsp; Me talking to Ed (in NY, how I love working there!)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2:&nbsp; Ed talking to me (I hope he feels the same.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3: ME talking to ME while I\u2019m talking to Ed <em>(\u2018Does he understand me? Am I making myself clear?\u2019)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4:&nbsp; ED talking to ED while he\u2019s talking to me <em>(\u2018Does she get what I mean? Can she really help me?\u2019)&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">5: My body language talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">6: His body language talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember this the next time you have a conversation with someone.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Check in with yourself (and your body!) to see what you are saying to yourself while you are talking to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might realize there\u2019s a lot more going on than you think!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liefs,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buffi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/buffiduberman.com\/nl\/rock-your-next-talk\/\">Grab my free guide for confidence! And rock your next talk!<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Surprising\u2026.but true! Look at this picture. It might look like two people talking, but it\u2019s not. 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