Talking Barbra, Not Fitting In, Gross Dutch Words & More!

It was so much fun to be the guest on Fleur and Dieuwke’s fantastic radio show! You can hear some of my favorite songs and what they mean to me, and so much more crazy fun stuff here. (Uiteraard.)
Your library is full! Let’s get dusting….

Ok, darling, let’s get something straight. Just because you watch Netflix without subtitles, it does NOT mean that your English is good. *shock and awe* It means that your EARS are good. Your EYES are good. Yeah for them! #TeamEyesAndEars Your mouth, however? Well, that’s another story. Just because you understand words, does NOT mean […]
Rock Your Business English! Masterclass – 22 March

IMPROVE YOUR BUSINESS ENGLISH FASTER WITH BUFFI DUBERMAN’S FAMOUS ROCK & ROLL METHOD! Do you have trouble finding the right words in English? Are you using the same words over and over again? Do you get nervous before giving a talk or pitch in English? Do you doubt which grammar form is the right […]
Did he really say that about his team? He had no idea what he said…

He said it. And so did she. And maybe so have you, once upon a time. He just insulted his whole team. How? By saying ‘They are really working so hard this week.’ This actually means ‘My team just sits around all day, doing nothing but checking how many likes their latte got on Instagram, […]
How hugging random strangers and doing a webinar are the same thing

Photo by Frans van Zaalen, taken at Utrecht Train Station, on Feb 14th 2018. This is me last Wednesday, on Valentine’s Day. My friend Sylvia and I took the train to 4 different cities and held up our FREE HUGS signs and hugged random strangers for 7 hours. Hugging strangers is something that I’m pretty […]
Imagine a world….

Imagine a world…. Where people wanted the best for each other. Where success was seen as inspiring and not a threat. Where learning new skills is exciting, fun, and challenging. Where pitching your ideas to a new international audience is not scary. Where writing an email is easy and fast. Where English phrases are there, […]
Was she being rude? Or just helpful? It’s too late for her, but not for you!

Happy Monday! And thanks so much for letting me slip into your inbox today! I really like it here! Let me tell you a little (true!) story. Once I was shopping with a friend who didn’t speak Dutch. We went into a small boutique, and my friend pulled a lovely dress off the rack to […]
My Magic Formula For Not Pissing People Off

Sweet darling, You’ve probably done it. And maybe you’ve done it without realising it. I know I’ve done it. And I realised it….too late! Done what? Disagreeing with someone in a way that could be perceived as being too ‘blunt’ or ‘aggressive’. You know – saying things like ‘No way.’ ‘No.’ ‘That won’t work,’ etc. […]
Just in case you missed it….

I had a blast at my Dress Up Your English masterclass powered by Harper’s Bazaar Network Academy! In case you didn’t grab a ticket (it was sold out) – good news! We will be dong this again in 2018! Here is a report on what you missed. See you at the next one!
How one word can make you or beak you. Choose wisely.

Wow! Can you believe that January is nearly over already? I cannot. Can. NOT! Time sure flies when you’re having fun! And I am! Hope you are too, my dear! Today I wanted to highlight the danger (OMG VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION COMING UP AHEAD) of using the wrong word after certain verbs. For example, many […]