Today I wanted to highlight the danger (OMG VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION COMING UP AHEAD 🤪) of using the wrong word after certain verbs.
DANGER ZONE INCOMING!
Do you know the difference between:
He stopped smoking.
He stopped to smoke.
Do you? Yeah, confetti cannon for you!
If not, let me explain.
If you stop DOING something, this means that you don’t do it anymore. If you stop TO DO something, this means you stop whatever you are doing in order to do something else. Big difference!
‘He stopped smoking an hour ago.’ – This is great news! This means that he doesn’t smoke anymore. (And if you have actually stopped smoking recently, I am SO happy for you! Hit ‘reply’ and mail me back, and I will send you a little surprise by mail. Not a joke.)
‘He stopped to smoke an hour ago.’ – this means that he stopped what he was doing so that he could take a cigarette break. Ouch. Big difference, right?
ANOTHER EXAMPLE
‘She must remember to call him.’
‘She must remember calling him.’
Do you see/hear/feel a difference here?
In the first sentence, if you ‘must remember to DO something’, this means that you haven’t done it yet. For example, I must remember to tell you how great you are at the end of this mail. I wouldn’t want to forget that!
In the second sentence, if you ‘must remember DOING something’, this means that you must recall doing it. You’ve already done it. It’s the complete opposite of the previous sentence.
If you’re dealing with a client and she asks you about shipping something, you can say ‘I remember sending it’ or ‘I’ll remember to send it’. If your client is waiting for her products, which one would she want to hear? (The first one. Believe me, never keep a woman waiting. Ever. Thank you.)
I hope this helps you when it comes to better communication in English. Want more English awesomeness? Click on the link below!
Oh, and by the way….you’re great!
Have a delicious Monday and I’ll see you next week!
With love,
Buffi
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