Use These To Sound More Native and Natural!

I wanted to talk to you about the gorgeousness known as Phrasal Verbs. Say what, mama? Yes. Phrasal Verbs.  This is what native English speakers use all the time. It is usually an informal way of saying something without using too many words. Just a verb and a preposition, and you’re good to go! Have you used […]

5 Ways To Put The Present Back In Your Presentations

I knew there was a big difference right when I walked into the room. Her eyes were sparkling and she looked excited. I had been helping my client with her presentation skills for a few weeks, and was enjoying watching her grow and develop as a speaker and seeing her confidence increase every time. In […]

You asked, and I listened. And now it’s here!

‘Hey, Buffi, I’d love private coaching, but what happens afterwards? I’m afraid I’ll go back to my old habits.” “Hi Buffy, can I also get personal support while following your online course?” “Can you kick my ass in English? I don’t have the discipline to do it on my own.” Oh my darling, welcome to […]

WE DID IT!

We did it. You did it. I did it. We did it. When I went down the escalator at 8.30 last Tuesday morning, I felt queasy in my stomach and clutched my ‘FREE HUGS’ sign with trembling hands. I had no idea what to expect and no clue if anyone would show up. But show […]

But what if nobody shows up?

Well, tomorrow’s the day. The day that started with a tweet might end up affecting hundreds of people in a big or small way. Or…nobody. Tomorrow is #HeelHollandHugt. I’m leaving very early in the morning with a big sign that says ‘FREE HUGS’. My friend Ayham is joining me. We will stand at the station and see if […]

Make It Louder!

I saw something this weekend that really made me stop and think. I usually never stop so that was a big deal, and I try to keep my thinking to a minimum. I stopped. I thought. This was a THING. It was this. I found a guy who put into words what I had been feeling. Lately […]

Now, More Than Ever.

First off, I just want to thank you for the overwhelming response I got to last week’s newsletter. Wow. I think I got more reactions from that than from any newsletter I’ve ever written. Thank you all for reaching out. It means so much to me. It became clear that I’m not the only one who […]

Heel Holland HUGT! Join me!

When a stranger stops you (OK, me) and says “Hey, Buffi. I know who you are. How are you? Can I just give you a hug?” And you nod yes and you cling to him like a lifejacket, you know something’s up. And something IS up. Because so many things are down. I watched the […]

Do you end your emails this way? Here’s why you shouldn’t.

It happened again yesterday. And the day before that. I’m sure you’ve seen it. Maybe you’ve even done it, sweet Buffi? What, you may say? This. I received a lovely mail in English from a new client, and then….at the end….it says ‘I look forward to meet you!’ WOW.  Honey, please don’t do this anymore. Let […]