Remember this the next time you eat in the States…

I just got back from a very quick trip to Florida, visiting my parents. Whenever I am there, I’m always struck by the optimism and enthusiasm I see everywhere. (Even on my sunrise walks every morning at 6.15 – many people were out walking and I was greeted by a ‘Gooood morning!’ by everyone.)

Europeans tell me all the time that they experience this as fake, especially in restaurants.
‘Why did the waitress come and introduce herself? It’s not like I want to be friends with her!’

One thing that not everyone realizes is that the minimum wage for restaurant workers is lower (much lower!) than the ‘normal,’ (and still shockingly low!) minimum wage.

When I was a waitress, I got paid 2 dollars and 8 cents an hour. Yes, you read that right. I could maybe afford a cup of coffee after working for an hour. That tip which you (hopefully!) leave before you go is NOT an extra in the States. Not at all.

It’s the missing half of someone’s wages. So of course they will introduce themselves, be nice and friendly, and keep checking in on you to make sure you are enjoying your meal.

Times have changed slightly since then, and the minimum wage has increased, but in Delaware, it’s a whopping 2 dollars and 23 cents.

Think about that for a second the next time you’re in a restaurant.
That ‘fake’ enthusiasm is there for a reason. (And, to be honest, many times it’s not fake at all. I truly was excited to help every table, and I loved being a waitress. Many people do!)

Tip your wait staff well. Very well. It’s greatly appreciated.
That’s a tip from me!

And let’s hear it for my ‘small side salad’. And for doggie bags, which means that every meal you order is tomorrow’s lunch at home!

Love,

Buffi (who was greeted by her air steward, in his 60s, with a huge smile and ‘What’s cookin’ good lookin’!’ as I boarded the plane flying back….I am feeling homesick already!)