This is how we deal with it….

As I write this, I’ve been awake for nearly 31 hours.  I stayed up all night watching the election results, and stayed up trying to process what I witnessed. I’m sad, I’m shocked, and I have an immense need to understand why and how this is happening. MORE THAN EVER, 8 YEARS ON 8 years […]

Devastated and elated…

A personal note from my heart… I’m sitting on the floor in my living room, surrounded by flowers and cards. Half of them say ‘Congratulations!’ and the other half ‘My deepest condolences’.  It’s been a hell of a week, to put it mildly.  I launched my new book ‘You Are The Best Thing That Has […]

1 more week….!

To get your free masterclass Can you believe it’s October already? This year is FLYING by! How do you want to spend the rest of your year? Drowning in doubt? Constantly comparing yourself to others? Being super hard on yourself because you didn’t measure up…again? That’s no way to live. Not for the rest of […]

What Isa says about my book

I’m so honored! You might have heard of Isa Hoes, the famous actress, podcast host, voiceover talent, and bestselling author.  I’m deeply honored that she wrote the intro to my new book ‘Jij bent het beste dat jou ooit is overkomen’ // ‘You Are the Best Thing That Has Ever Happened to You’ . This […]

BREAKING NEWS – Free Masterclass & 2 New Books!

I can finally share the news! I am so excited to finally tell you about my new books. 🥳 Introducing……my new twins! Darling, please meet…. ‘Jij bent het beste dat jou ooit is overkomen’ and ‘You Are the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to You’!  I am so thrilled to share my gorgeous and happy […]

My magic formula

It works every time! You’ve probably done it. And maybe you’ve done it without realizing it. Done what? Disagreeing with someone in a way that could be perceived as being too ‘blunt‘ or ‘aggressive‘. You know – saying things like ‘No way.‘ ‘No.’ ‘That won’t work,’ etc. All of these work beautifully in Dutch and […]

 2 simple hacks for immediate headspace

I spent part of the summer in Iceland, and it was such a game changer for me.  I had enormous clarity and so much headspace. I did 2 simple things on vacation that I continue to do now that I’m home. 😍 MY 2 TIPS: ✅ WHY I DID THIS:🤔 So often I felt like […]

A sneak peek of my new Dutch podcast!

NEW PODCAST ALERT! I am so excited to announce that the trailer for my new podcast is online! Welcome to the Buffi Boost! I created the Buffi Boost podcast to add more sparkle, fun, and positivity to your week. Join me for coaching tips and tricks in a lively and dynamic conversation with my publisher […]

Opening the Beste Boeken Live!

It was such an honor to open the 10th edition of the Beste Boeken Live at the Spoorwegmuseum in Utrecht! This is where bookstores come and see the newest titles that will be released in the fall. Not only could I open the event, I also gave a masterclass about my new book. It was […]

Think big. But believe bigger.

If I can do it, so can you! I want you to do this…. Think big. But believe bigger. When I left a safe, well-paid job at the most prestigious language institute 23 years ago to follow my dream, which was to become the first Personal English Coach to the Fresh and the Fabulous, people […]