Feeling nervous when all eyes are on you?
These tips will help! If you get nervous before speaking in public, this means that you are human. YEAH for not being a robot! Being nervous means that this talk is important to you. You care about the results and want to do a good job. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t care enough to […]
Think big. But believe bigger.
My story…. I want you to do this…. THINK BIG. BUT BELIEVE BIGGER. When I left a safe, well-paid job at the most prestigious language institute 23 years ago to follow my dream, which was to become the first Personal English Coach to the Fresh and the Fabulous, people could not wrap their heads around […]
New year, new you?
Nope. Happy new year! And happy same you. I’m so glad you are you. Are you? BOOK OF THE MONTH! 📕 I’m deeply honored that my new book is the very first Book of the Month in the fabulous Psychologie Magazine! They say this: ‘Duberman is the ideal coach: energetic, funny, to the point, and […]
Are you trapped in the trap?
Let’s get you out! Happy holidays, if you’re celebrating! Let’s wrap up this year with joy. I’ve started using a wonderful technique, and I’ve shared it with many clients. I love the results I’ve seen so far, so I just had to share it with you! ROSE, THORN, BUD 🌹 I ask my clients at […]
How one word can make you or break you.
Today I wanted to highlight the danger (OMG VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION COMING UP AHEAD 🤪) of using the wrong word after certain verbs. DANGER ZONE INCOMING! Do you know the difference between: He stopped smoking. He stopped to smoke. Do you? Yeah, confetti cannon for you! If not, let me explain. If you stop DOING […]
How to ruin a first impression in 5 easy steps….without even knowing!
Guess what? People are busy. People get distracted. People don’t have time to figure out what you mean. You only get one shot to get it right, So, let’s say you write a mail to a potential client – this person could be very important for your work, and you’d like to set up a […]
An attitude of gratitude
Why wait until Thursday? This Thursday, many people in the States will gather around the table with their loved ones and celebrate Thanksgiving. Hopefully their thanks will be just as bountiful as their meals, and they will be wearing clothes with elastic waistbands. (Many zippers break during this meal… #funfact.) For me, every day holds […]
Look what I made for you….use it or lose it!
Your boss will love it. I wrote you a mail. Why? Because it’s the end of the year, and SO many people still have their training budget left over and they want to invest it…fast. My inbox is full of sentences like this one. So I have taken the liberty of writing a mail to […]
This is how we deal with it….
As I write this, I’ve been awake for nearly 31 hours. I stayed up all night watching the election results, and stayed up trying to process what I witnessed. I’m sad, I’m shocked, and I have an immense need to understand why and how this is happening. MORE THAN EVER, 8 YEARS ON 8 years […]
Devastated and elated…
A personal note from my heart… I’m sitting on the floor in my living room, surrounded by flowers and cards. Half of them say ‘Congratulations!’ and the other half ‘My deepest condolences’. It’s been a hell of a week, to put it mildly. I launched my new book ‘You Are The Best Thing That Has […]