Gotta lose my egg..
Hello darling! How are you on this happy holiday weekend? I hope you are having a wonderful time. You gotta love the Dutch. And I sure do! The Dutch made Easter 2 days long. Thank you, Dutchies! That’s why I’m sending this out early, so that we can all stay far, far away from our […]
Happy Monday
Hello sweetie, How are you on this lovely Monday? I hope this finds you well. I’ve had such a wonderful time over the past few days reading and responding to all of your reactions to my free Detox Your English course – thank you so much! Some of you wrote your very first email in […]
How do you get to 10 Downing Street? Practise.
Hello, sweetie! How are you? I hope your Monday is off to a swinging start! I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart – so many of you reached out to me when I wrote about my knife attack last week, and every day brings more messages and emails sharing your […]
And now for something completely different…

Hello, sweetie. This newsletter is a bit unusual, because my week has been…unusual…to say the least. Last Monday, during a sunny afternoon, I was followed, attacked and held up at knifepoint. That kind of put everything into perspective. It taught me 10 things. You can read about them here if you want to. (Warning: I use a […]
I have no idea what to say so I don’t say anything…
….she said to me when we met for a coaching session recently. I love working with this woman. This woman is smart. Sharp. Well-educated. Has a job she loves. And she. Is. Terrified. To. Speak. English. (She is not alone.) We talked for a while about what was holding her back. Was she afraid of […]
Make my day. And yours. (Oh, and theirs.)

“I have no idea why he reacted that way. He seemed really upset! ” “I’m curious…what did you say to him?” “You’re wrong.” “Oh. I see.” ***** This is a quote from one of my recent coaching sessions. The person I was working with was a Dutch executive. Which means, at times, she translated from Dutch […]
Like a rainbow. Yeah, I said rainbow.

“Buffi, I’m so tired of using English. It’s getting boring.” “Um…why?” “Because I’m sick of using the same words over and over again.” “I get that. That’s not only boring for you, but also for the people you’re talking to. Have you ever tried to use different words?” “Um, not really.” “Ok. Grab a coffee […]
Where the streets have no name?! (Don’t let this happen to you!)

Hello sweetie, how is this Monday treating you? I hope it’s going swimmingly! I just wanted to take a moment to thank you all for the reactions I got from last week’s newsletter. So many of you emailed me personally and really touched me with your comments. Remember, if you don’t get a chance to use English […]
Cheerleaders never score

Sweetie. How are you on this lovely Monday? I hope your week is off to a great start. Mine sure is, because I’m spending part of it with you! Darling, I have a question for you – how much English have you actively used since my last newsletter dear? I was just wondering. Every week I get […]
What does a lumberjack do?

He cuts down trees. And what does he do after he cuts them down? He cuts them up. Oh, sweetie – aren’t phrasal verbs fun? I thought I’d brighten up your Monday with a grammar joke (lame as it was). Hope now you’re singing this! I’ve just come back from the epic Eurosonic/Noorderslag music festival held […]